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Andrew's Story

Ethnicity
White British
Age
50-59
Work
Office
Sexual Orientation
Straight
Geography
North West
Relationship status
Married/In a Civil Partnership
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Radical Prostatectomy (Surgery)

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

It takes time to recover after surgery. Viagra helped at first. I'd say it took 6 months before things started to function close to normal with viagra. After 18 months everything was right. You do occasionally pass urine in the early months when aroused, but you have to shrug it off as, time and patience plus an understanding partner, greatly helped.

Tips and advice for any mental and emotional side effects of treatment

The physical scars will heal.

How this treatment impacted my life the most

Mainly psychologically. Performance anxiety in the early days with erectile disfunction. Embarrassment. It does pass. I had a fantastic surgeon who used nerve freezing to preserve function long term. Bladder function is affected but pelvic floor exercises help over time. Sneezing, farting, laughing hard can result in oops moments still, but it beats dying of prostate cancer!

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Yes

Why did I give this answer?

It got rid of the problem in one swift go. My cancer was more widespread than initially thought, so it was a no brainer.

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