Radical Prostatectomy (Surgery)
Tips and advice for any bladder or bowel side effects of treatment
Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment
Thankfully, I have a very understanding wife. It was just a case of learning other ways to connect intimately and being open and honest with each other
Tips and advice for any mental and emotional side effects of treatment
I know some can get really down due to the Penis shrinkage and impotence. It doesn't make you any less of a man it's just a new chapter in your life and a chance to learn more about your partner.
How this treatment impacted my life the most
Being left incontinent and impotent at 44 took a bit of getting used to. It took being totally honest about my fears and feelings to get through it.
If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?
Not sure
Why did I give this answer?
It was hoped the cancer was contained in the prostate, but once they started the operation, they realised it had spread into the surrounding area. This meant the removal of more than the prostate, which led to the added side effects. Having it removed has probably prolonged my life but with with the side effects.
Radiotherapy
Tips and advice for any bladder or bowel side effects of treatment
Tips and advice for any mental and emotional side effects of treatment
I found that having radiotherapy gave me purpose each day. It was when it finished I struggled mentally and spiralled into depression. Get a good support network around you not only during but also after radiotherapy.
How this treatment impacted my life the most
The routine of going everyday was a positive for me. The staff were so friendly and supportive. It was great to have a reason to get up and go out each day. Ringing the bell at after your last treatment is an amazing feeling.
If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?
Yes