I was prescribed a pump. While it was useful in initially in getting the blood used to going back where it needed to go, it was a most demeaning and unpleasant thing to use and I never contemplated using it to assist actual intercourse. I was prescribed medication, to be taken twice a week for the same purpose of 'getting things going again' but it often made me bloated and constipated and sometimes seemed to have the opposite effect. Over the course of about a year, some semblance of a natural response returned but it was never sufficient or maintained enough for intercourse. Recently I have been prescribed different medication, which is a little easier on the stomach but so far not very successful in supporting intercourse. Both Tadalafil and Sildenafil make me feel unpleasantly flushed in my face for a good hour or more, 30 minutes after taking them.
I can't think of anything.
Having the prostatectomy has so far put an end to my ability to make love to my wife. Although my operation was declared to be "nerve sparing", I have never since, with or without chemical or mechanical help, been able to achieve or sustain an erection sufficient for satisfactory intercourse.
Yes
Because it may well have saved my life (six years later I still have an undetectable PSA level) and it certainly saved me from other prolonged and unpleasant treatments.
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