Mark's Story

Ethnicity
White British
Age
40-49
Work
Office
Sexual Orientation
Straight
Geography
West Midlands
Relationship status
Married/In a Civil Partnership

Radical Prostatectomy (Surgery)

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

Just be patient with yourself! I felt that sex was probably last on my mind during the treatment and even afterwards. My personal view is that your body will tell you when the time is right.

Tips and advice for any physical side effects of treatment

Make sure that you get the treatment from the Lymhoedema team if needed. Massaging is great for moving that 'sitting' fluid around the body and getting it dispersed.

Tips and advice for any mental and emotional side effects of treatment

Talk! Find that person that you can talk open and honestly with. I had a buddy that had been through the same journey as me and found that by talking openly with him made me feel less inadequate/broken.

How this treatment impacted my life the most

Impact on ED was a major impact on my life and the feeling of not being were I was previously in my relationship.

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Yes

Why did I give this answer?

It save my life

Hormone Therapy (injections)

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

The hormone treatment impacted my sex derive massively. The reduction of testosterone made me put weight on, gave hot flushes and reduced my sex drive to zero.

Tips and advice for any physical side effects of treatment

Excerise helped with general problems with the hormone treatments, would advise that just moving the body gently helps

Tips and advice for any mental and emotional side effects of treatment

Remember that this treatment is helping to control the cancer and that these side effects are minimal in relation to possible outcomes

How this treatment impacted my life the most

Sex life, the hormone treatment really impacted the way I felt about sex.

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Yes

Why did I give this answer?

I opted for all treatments to ensure that I had the best outcome

Radiotherapy

Tips and advice for any sexual side effects of treatment

Radiotherapy was in addition to me receiving hormone treatment so I can not be sure which treatment was causing the affects. Listen to your body, it will tell you when you are ready to start relationships again, do not rush.

Tips and advice for any physical side effects of treatment

Radiotherapy treatment can be exhausting just through the nature of going to the hospital to receive the treatment, take your time and allow times when you just need to flake out.

How this treatment impacted my life the most

Take one day at a time and allow your body to tell you when you need to take some time for yourself (i.e. sleep!)

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Yes

Why did I give this answer?

It helped me battle the cancer, why would I not 😃

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