I was told that there would be a good chance of nerve damage during surgery. I was offered various treatments for getting an election. I chose the vacuum pump. After trying on several occasions, After several attempts i couldn't keep the erection. After a long discussion with the wife, we have decided that sex isn't the be all and end all.
I was conscious when going out of wee leakage. In certain circumstances, I wear a pad. Though this is mainly for my peace of mind. The loss of sex life was initially hard to deal with, but has got easier over time. Luckily I have an understanding wife, who would sooner go without sex, rather than the other option. If I have 1 bit of advice, it's do the pelvic floor exercises, well before your treatment starts.
Yes
It's the only way of ensuring it doesn't return. And saves me having to put my wife and daughters through the agony of what ifs.
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