I think it was important to simply ignore the side effects and behave as if they weren't there - it seemed to reduce their impact significantly
A supportive partner is invaluable, ESPECIALLY if you are honest and don't try to cover up or hide your feelings and effects.
Insignificant compared with the concurrent catheter and TURP issues
Yes
The evidence is that it stopped the cancer in its tracks, which was wonderful for morale.
If you are going to have a TURP then once it has healed things get nearly back to normal, so be patient!
Immediately post TURP try to stay within earshot of your partner as you might collapse (due to pain and blood loss, I guess). Mine was brilliant at rescuing me.
It was very necessary. My overwhelming feeling was thankfulness the day the catheter was removed and I was able to urinate.
Yes
Urine retention can be fatal. The relief at overcoming it was huge.
Do keep exercising the penis otherwise it will shrivel up and can disappear inside the body
It appeared to have gone swimmingly, but 6 months later the urine flow is reducing and there has been occasional bowel and bladder incontinence. It's the incontinence that affcects morale and confidence.
Yes
The treatment was painless and so far appears to have been successful, but it is too early to be sure. It's demoralising to start getting incontinence so many months afterwards, but if that is the price to be paid for controlling the cancer so be it.
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