Richard's Story

Ethnicity
White British
Age
60-69
Work
Volunteer
Sexual Orientation
Straight
Geography
South West
Relationship status
In a relationship

Radical Prostatectomy (Surgery)

How this treatment impacted my life the most

I had non nerve sparing surgery. This has impacted a great deal on my sex life. I am a highly sexual person and now I can only get an erection using an injection. This makes spontaneous sex impossible as the erection lasts a couple of hours even on a minimum dose. I am sure many men would like this !

If I had to do it all over again, would I choose the same treatment?

Not sure

Why did I give this answer?

The description of the options felt that surgery would be better than the side effects of chemical treatment. However scans did not shot that the cancer had spread outside the prostate and so non nerve sparing surgery was required and as post op within 4 days of leaving hospital I suffered sepsis. This is what nearly killed me. The catheter remained for a further ten days whoch may have made my pee problems worse but as I didn't see a surgeon post op it was not nearly until 2 weeks until the catheter was removed that a nurse told me I had had non nerve sparing surgery and this was a big blow.

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